Surrender – A Doorway to Peace

In this episode, we continue to discuss the concept of "surrender" and how it plays a role in emotional well-being, personal growth, and recovery.

Surrender – A Doorway to Peace

Surrender – A Doorway to Peace

Podcast Summary

Welcome back, dear readers, to another enlightening episode of “Awakening 101.” Today, the focus is on the transformative power of surrender, exploring its profound impact on personal growth and emotional well-being. In the episode titled “Surrender – A Doorway to Peace,” the hosts unravel the essence of surrender, emphasizing its significance in navigating the complexities of our emotional landscape. With insights drawn from personal experiences and foundational texts like David Hawkins’ “Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender,” they offer practical guidance and heartfelt stories to support listeners on their journey towards peace and self-discovery.

Concept and Mechanism of Surrender

Surrender is often misunderstood. It is not about giving up but about letting go of the need for control and embracing the present moment. David Hawkins’ book “Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender” beautifully describes this process as a mechanism of the mind that leads to a sensation of relief and lightness. Imagine dropping a heavy weight you’ve been carrying – that’s the feeling of true surrender.

In their discussion, the hosts emphasized that surrender is a continuous journey requiring practice and patience. It’s about recognizing and understanding emotions, which is crucial for authentic surrender. For example, it’s challenging to let go when overwhelmed by anger or fear without understanding the underlying triggers. By acknowledging these emotions and consciously deciding to release them, one facilitates emotional release and personal growth. They also touched on the human tendency to resist surrender due to a desire for control and fear of the unknown. Embracing surrender allows breaking free from these limiting patterns, leading to a more peaceful and liberated state of being. This process fosters a deeper connection with oneself and the present moment, enhancing emotional well-being and personal transformation.

Emotional Processing and Surrender

Recognizing, processing, and letting go of emotions like anger and fear are essential for surrender. Suppressing or repressing emotions only hinders this process. Instead, the hosts advocate for a mindful and conscious approach to emotional processing. One practical strategy discussed is the use of “anger letters,” a technique suggested by Robert Jameson, the therapist of one of the hosts. This involves writing down all your angry thoughts and feelings without holding back, allowing for the full expression and release of pent-up emotions. This practice helps gain clarity and insight into the root causes of anger, making it easier to let go and surrender.

Patience and mindfulness are crucial in this emotional processing. The hosts referred to the Buddhist concept of patience as wisdom, suggesting that taking a step back and allowing time for emotions to settle can lead to more constructive responses. This practice, sometimes called the “24-hour rule,” helps avoid impulsive reactions and provides a clearer perspective on emotions. They also explored into the deeper psychological aspects of fear and anger, noting that these emotions often stem from a primal fear of survival. By addressing these underlying fears, individuals can better understand their emotional triggers and work towards a state of surrender. This holistic approach not only facilitates surrender but also contributes to overall emotional well-being and resilience.

Practical Strategies and Lifelong Journey

Surrender is a lifelong journey that requires continuous practice and mindfulness. The hosts shared various practical strategies for incorporating surrender into daily life, emphasizing that it’s an ongoing process. Mindfulness is a key component of the surrender process. By staying present and aware of thoughts and feelings, one can better navigate emotions and make conscious choices to let go. The hosts discussed the use of anger letters as a practical tool for emotional release and the importance of patience in dealing with intense emotions.

Sound healing, particularly through the use of singing bowls, is another powerful tool for surrender. Singing bowls create a sense of calm and grounding, enhancing meditation practices and facilitating a deeper state of surrender. Personal experiences of using singing bowls before meditation were shared, noting their effectiveness in creating a peaceful and focused state of mind.

The lifelong nature of surrender involves constant learning and growth. The hosts highlighted the importance of self-compassion and patience, encouraging listeners to embrace the process and be gentle with themselves as they navigate their emotional landscape.

Conclusion

“Surrender – A Doorway to Peace” offers a comprehensive exploration of the transformative power of surrender. By understanding the concept and mechanism of surrender, processing emotions healthily, and incorporating practical tools and mindfulness, individuals can embark on a lifelong journey towards greater peace and personal growth. Louise and the other host provide valuable insights and practical strategies for integrating surrender into daily life, encouraging listeners to embrace this powerful practice and experience the profound benefits it offers. Through patience, mindfulness, and emotional processing, surrender becomes a pathway to peace and continuous personal transformation.

In closing, remember that surrender is not a destination but a journey. It’s a practice that requires patience, mindfulness, and a willingness to let go. Embrace the process, be gentle with yourself, and allow the transformative power of surrender to guide you towards peace and personal growth. Thank you for joining this journey, and we look forward to continuing to explore these profound topics with you.

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Abdi Assadi is unlike any other healer or spiritual teacher ever encountered. He is an expert in martial arts, and a dynamic healer practicing a diverse array of Chinese and Eastern Medicine, indigenous shamanic rituals, and meditation techniques. With a clinical practice in New York City for almost 4 decades, Abdi has accumulated a vast knowledge of real life experience working with several thousands of individuals, guiding them through the most difficult times, and teaching them how to understand themselves. One of the greatest things about him is he merges the human psyche with the spiritual psyche.

Steeped in deep wisdom and insight that is rare to find on this planet in these modern times, Abdi has an extraordinary ability in perceiving and comprehending human souls and their individual psyche. Guided by the divine, Abdi guides you to open up and see beyond your limited Self, into your own soul. His impeccable discernment enables him to unleash personal remarks that pierce through your veil, statements that you will never forget and in an instant alter your perception of yourself and your reality.

– Quotes from Shadows on the Path by Abdi Assadi:


All spiritual masters teach us that love is an activity before it is a condition – and that love is all-encompassing.
Page 18


It felt like I was coming off a race track and driving in a school zone. He knew, years before I did, that my speed was my way of suppressing my early childhood anxiety, and that only slowing down could heal it.

Why do you need to use all these words like God and spirituality? It is right here Abdi, all around you, all the time
Page 40


one does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.
Page 51


Ultimately it keeps grace out of our lives because we are using our will power to manipulate every event and person around us.
Page 74


His lesson, which I had begun to learn for myself, is that outside circumstances do not define our internal experience if we can surrender into them. Painful or undesirable situations will always arise; true suffering comes from our ego’s desire to resist life as it is.
Page 77


Note from Pernilla:
I met Abdi in the fall of 2014 and when I arrived in his office the first thing he said was, “It’s time that you stop carrying other people’s anxiety.” In the year that followed, my entrenched codependency patterns reared their ugly heads and I was confronted with a part of myself that I had never even known was there.

A few years later, Abdi said, “When are you going to start writing your book?”I looked at him in surprise. I was not a writer. My expertise was centered around creating crazy good Excel spreadsheets. However, I started writing and collecting notes about life issues and life experiences … and here we are a few years later.

Sally Kempton is a preeminent meditation teacher of our time.

She is an expert scholar in Hinduism and all Hindu texts especially in Kashmir Shaivisim. Formerly Swami Durgananda, she left monastic life in the 1980’s to teach publicly. She has written several books and is one of the most known and loved spiritual teachers in our time.

Note from Pernilla:

I met Sally at one of her workshops at City Yoga in LA in 2003. She had the most gentle and loving disposition, and I just wanted to always be around her. I was fortunate to have been part of her two year-long “Transformative journey” courses in 2006 and 2007 and many retreats ever since. She is the true representation of unconditional love and transmits intense shakti from her Guru Swami Muktananda.

Sally is the primary building block and foundation in my spiritual journey. Without her, I would have never found and stuck with meditation – the most transformative experience of my life. Without her, I would have been lost without a clue where to go next. Her wealth of knowledge of yogic philosophy and incredible understanding of the human condition is what makes her a force to be reckoned with.  She understands your depth and makes you feel seen, heard, validated, and deeply loved.