Experiencing the now

In this Episode, Pernilla and Louise continue their discussion of the Awakening process, specifically focusing on the theme of being present in the "now."

Experiencing the now

Podcast Summary

In today’s fast-paced world, staying present can often feel like an elusive goal. With constant distractions and a never-ending stream of responsibilities, it’s easy to find ourselves caught up in a whirlwind of past regrets and future worries. In the latest episode of the podcast, “Experiencing the Now,” the hosts dive deep into the art of mindfulness and presence, exploring how a more mindful way of living can be cultivated. This episode is a journey into understanding how mindfulness, humor, and strategies for staying present can transform lives. Join the hosts as they explore these concepts and learn practical ways to integrate them into daily routines.

Podcast Themes

Mindfulness and Presence

Mindfulness is more than just a concept; it’s a practice that invites us to fully engage with the present moment. In the podcast, the hosts discussed how mindfulness involves paying close attention to thoughts, feelings, and sensations without judgment. This heightened awareness reduces stress and anxiety by keeping us from dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. The episode explored ways to incorporate mindfulness into everyday activities. Simple practices like mindful eating and walking can anchor us in the present moment, enhancing sensory experiences and deepening our connection with ourselves and our surroundings.

Meditation was highlighted as a key tool for cultivating mindfulness. Focusing on the breath or a mantra during meditation trains the mind to stay present, which helps handle daily challenges with greater calm and clarity. Scientific studies mentioned in the podcast show that mindfulness can reduce symptoms of depression, improve focus, and enhance emotional regulation. In essence, mindfulness allows for living more fully. By being present, we develop a deeper connection with ourselves and the world, leading to a more fulfilling and balanced life.

The Role of Humor and Light-heartedness

Humor and light-heartedness are powerful allies in the journey towards mindfulness. The hosts emphasized how incorporating humor into daily life can serve as a refreshing antidote to stress and negativity. Laughter brings us into the present moment, offering a break from the seriousness that often dominates our thoughts. Laughter has numerous benefits, such as releasing endorphins, the body’s natural feel-good chemicals, promoting a sense of well-being. Humor reduces stress hormones, lowers blood pressure, and even boosts the immune system. By finding humor in everyday situations, individuals can shift their perspective and lighten their emotional load.

Not taking oneself too seriously is another important aspect of mindfulness. Life is unpredictable, and maintaining a light-hearted attitude helps navigate challenges with resilience. Humor allows for seeing the absurdity in situations and responding with flexibility rather than frustration. It also strengthens social connections. Sharing a laugh with others creates a sense of camaraderie and fosters a positive atmosphere. It breaks down barriers, making communication and collaboration more enjoyable. In essence, humor and light-heartedness enrich relationships and enhance overall quality of life.

Challenges and Strategies for Staying Present

Staying present amidst the chaos of daily life is no easy feat. The hosts identified common challenges to mindfulness and strategies to overcome them. One significant challenge is the omnipresence of digital distractions. Phones, social media, and constant notifications fragment our focus, pulling us away from the present moment. To mitigate this, they discussed setting boundaries with technology. Designating specific times for checking emails and social media, turning off notifications, and creating tech-free zones at home can significantly reduce digital distractions. These steps create more space for mindful presence.

Habitual thought patterns also pose a challenge. Dwelling on past mistakes or future worries can make it difficult to stay rooted in the present. Mindfulness meditation emerged as a valuable technique in this regard. By training the mind to notice these thoughts without getting entangled in them, one can gently bring attention back to the now. Self-compassion is crucial in the practice of staying present. Instead of criticizing oneself for getting distracted, acknowledging the distraction and returning focus to the present moment with kindness is encouraged. This approach reduces frustration and guilt, making it easier to maintain mindfulness. Grounding exercises, such as deep breathing, body scans, and mindful movement, were highlighted as effective strategies for staying present. These practices anchor awareness in the physical sensations of the moment, serving as reminders to pause and experience life as it unfolds.

Conclusion

In “Experiencing the Now,” the hosts journeyed through the realms of mindfulness, humor, and presence, uncovering how these practices can transform daily lives. Mindfulness invites individuals to fully engage with the present moment, reducing stress and enhancing connection to themselves and the world around them. Humor and light-heartedness serve as powerful tools to navigate life’s challenges with resilience and joy, fostering deeper social connections and overall well-being.

Staying present amidst the distractions of modern life is a continual challenge, but with mindful practices and self-compassion, a more grounded and fulfilling existence can be cultivated. By setting boundaries with technology, practicing mindfulness meditation, and incorporating grounding exercises, space for presence in life is created. As these practices are embraced, life is experienced more fully, finding joy and connection in the present moment. Let us continue this journey together, exploring the depths of mindfulness and presence, and discovering the transformative power they hold.

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Abdi Assadi is unlike any other healer or spiritual teacher ever encountered. He is an expert in martial arts, and a dynamic healer practicing a diverse array of Chinese and Eastern Medicine, indigenous shamanic rituals, and meditation techniques. With a clinical practice in New York City for almost 4 decades, Abdi has accumulated a vast knowledge of real life experience working with several thousands of individuals, guiding them through the most difficult times, and teaching them how to understand themselves. One of the greatest things about him is he merges the human psyche with the spiritual psyche.

Steeped in deep wisdom and insight that is rare to find on this planet in these modern times, Abdi has an extraordinary ability in perceiving and comprehending human souls and their individual psyche. Guided by the divine, Abdi guides you to open up and see beyond your limited Self, into your own soul. His impeccable discernment enables him to unleash personal remarks that pierce through your veil, statements that you will never forget and in an instant alter your perception of yourself and your reality.

– Quotes from Shadows on the Path by Abdi Assadi:


All spiritual masters teach us that love is an activity before it is a condition – and that love is all-encompassing.
Page 18


It felt like I was coming off a race track and driving in a school zone. He knew, years before I did, that my speed was my way of suppressing my early childhood anxiety, and that only slowing down could heal it.

Why do you need to use all these words like God and spirituality? It is right here Abdi, all around you, all the time
Page 40


one does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.
Page 51


Ultimately it keeps grace out of our lives because we are using our will power to manipulate every event and person around us.
Page 74


His lesson, which I had begun to learn for myself, is that outside circumstances do not define our internal experience if we can surrender into them. Painful or undesirable situations will always arise; true suffering comes from our ego’s desire to resist life as it is.
Page 77


Note from Pernilla:
I met Abdi in the fall of 2014 and when I arrived in his office the first thing he said was, “It’s time that you stop carrying other people’s anxiety.” In the year that followed, my entrenched codependency patterns reared their ugly heads and I was confronted with a part of myself that I had never even known was there.

A few years later, Abdi said, “When are you going to start writing your book?”I looked at him in surprise. I was not a writer. My expertise was centered around creating crazy good Excel spreadsheets. However, I started writing and collecting notes about life issues and life experiences … and here we are a few years later.

Sally Kempton is a preeminent meditation teacher of our time.

She is an expert scholar in Hinduism and all Hindu texts especially in Kashmir Shaivisim. Formerly Swami Durgananda, she left monastic life in the 1980’s to teach publicly. She has written several books and is one of the most known and loved spiritual teachers in our time.

Note from Pernilla:

I met Sally at one of her workshops at City Yoga in LA in 2003. She had the most gentle and loving disposition, and I just wanted to always be around her. I was fortunate to have been part of her two year-long “Transformative journey” courses in 2006 and 2007 and many retreats ever since. She is the true representation of unconditional love and transmits intense shakti from her Guru Swami Muktananda.

Sally is the primary building block and foundation in my spiritual journey. Without her, I would have never found and stuck with meditation – the most transformative experience of my life. Without her, I would have been lost without a clue where to go next. Her wealth of knowledge of yogic philosophy and incredible understanding of the human condition is what makes her a force to be reckoned with.  She understands your depth and makes you feel seen, heard, validated, and deeply loved.