Allowing Emotions to Live

What happens when we let emotions simply be? This post delves into the art of allowing emotions to move through us without judgment, exploring how acceptance can lead to healing, deeper self-understanding, and emotional freedom.

Allowing Emotions to Live

Allowing Emotions to Live

Podcast Summary

Welcome to another enriching episode of “Allowing Emotions to Live” on Awakening Process 101. In this episode, we explore the profound journey of emotional well-being, spirituality, and personal recovery. Through candid conversations and personal stories, we dive into the complexities of surrender, inner child work, and the transformative power of blind faith. This episode is a treasure trove of practical advice, spiritual insights, and deep understanding, making it a valuable resource for anyone on the path of personal growth and healing.

The episode focuses on three main themes: Emotional Well-being and Recovery, Spirituality, Karma, and Blind Faith, and Inner Child Work and Codependency. Each theme is meticulously explored, offering comprehensive guidance to help you navigate your emotional landscape and foster inner growth.

Emotional Well-being and Recovery

In the latest episode, the journey of emotional well-being and recovery is depicted as a process of learning to surrender and allow emotions to surface. Surrender is not about giving up, but about letting go of control and embracing the natural flow of emotions. One of us shared a personal story about leaving an upsetting message for a friend and then releasing the anxiety of waiting for her response. This act of surrender led to a peaceful resolution when the friend eventually called back without any issues. Such examples highlight that true surrender allows negative emotions to be resolved without lingering.

We also discussed the crucial role therapy plays in early sobriety, helping to express and nurture emotions. Through therapy, we learned to treat ourselves with the same compassion we would offer a child, addressing the fears and anxieties of the inner child. Recovery is a gradual process that requires patience, consistent effort, and a supportive environment. We shared the story of a horse recovering from trauma through consistent care and routine, illustrating how a nurturing environment can facilitate both emotional and physical healing.

Spirituality, Karma, and Blind Faith

The podcast explores the intricate relationship between spirituality, karma, and blind faith in the recovery process. We discuss the influence of spiritual teachers and texts, such as David Hawkins’ work on surrender and letting go. Understanding karma provides a fresh perspective on recurring emotional patterns and challenges. One of us shared an encounter with a spiritual teacher who explained that their emotional turmoil was linked to unresolved karma from high school. This revelation offered a new understanding of their struggles and highlighted the importance of addressing past karma. Blind faith is presented as a crucial component in the recovery journey, as it provides the strength to persist through difficult times. Personal stories were shared, including how blind faith played a pivotal role in overcoming obstacles. For example, one of us described how this faith helped continue attending meetings and therapy sessions, even when unsure of their efficacy, demonstrating the importance of maintaining belief in the recovery process.

We also explored the significance of a nurturing environment in spiritual and emotional growth. Drawing parallels between human experiences and the healing process observed in animals, such as a horse recovering from trauma through consistent care and routine, we emphasized that spiritual growth and emotional healing are deeply interconnected. This discussion underlines the balance of faith, understanding, and supportive environments needed for holistic growth, underscoring that recovery requires not just inner work but also external support.

Inner Child Work and Codependency

The podcast offers an in-depth exploration of inner child work and the challenges of codependency. Many adult emotional struggles stem from unresolved childhood fears and traumas, and recognizing and nurturing the inner child helps heal these deep-seated wounds. We shared personal stories to illustrate how inner child work has helped us understand and empathize with our fears and anxieties. One of us described a period of severe depression and how therapy focused on nurturing their inner child led to significant healing. This process involved treating ourselves with the same compassion and care we would offer a child, addressing unmet emotional needs, and gradually overcoming ingrained fears. Allowing emotions to surface and be acknowledged, rather than suppressing them, aids personal healing and fosters healthier relationships.

We also discussed the interplay between codependency and inner child issues, noting that many codependent behaviors arise from a fear of abandonment and a need for approval rooted in childhood experiences. By working through these issues, individuals can break free from unhealthy patterns and build more balanced, fulfilling relationships. Inner child work is a gradual process that requires patience and consistent effort. We shared practical advice on how to nurture the inner child, such as reading relevant literature and engaging in self-compassionate practices, offering tools to help listeners along their healing journey.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the themes of awakening, gratitude, and surrender offer powerful tools for personal growth and spiritual development. By integrating these principles into daily life, we can navigate the complexities of the modern world with greater ease and grace. Awakening helps us stay present and connected, gratitude fosters a sense of abundance and resilience, and surrender allows us to trust the process of life.

As the journey continues, embracing these concepts with open hearts and minds is essential. Finding moments of stillness in our busy lives, practicing gratitude even in the face of adversity, and surrendering to the flow of life, trusting that we are exactly where we need to be, are crucial. By doing so, we can discover deeper meaning, purpose, and connection, enriching not only our own lives but also the lives of those around us.

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Abdi Assadi is unlike any other healer or spiritual teacher ever encountered. He is an expert in martial arts, and a dynamic healer practicing a diverse array of Chinese and Eastern Medicine, indigenous shamanic rituals, and meditation techniques. With a clinical practice in New York City for almost 4 decades, Abdi has accumulated a vast knowledge of real life experience working with several thousands of individuals, guiding them through the most difficult times, and teaching them how to understand themselves. One of the greatest things about him is he merges the human psyche with the spiritual psyche.

Steeped in deep wisdom and insight that is rare to find on this planet in these modern times, Abdi has an extraordinary ability in perceiving and comprehending human souls and their individual psyche. Guided by the divine, Abdi guides you to open up and see beyond your limited Self, into your own soul. His impeccable discernment enables him to unleash personal remarks that pierce through your veil, statements that you will never forget and in an instant alter your perception of yourself and your reality.

– Quotes from Shadows on the Path by Abdi Assadi:


All spiritual masters teach us that love is an activity before it is a condition – and that love is all-encompassing.
Page 18


It felt like I was coming off a race track and driving in a school zone. He knew, years before I did, that my speed was my way of suppressing my early childhood anxiety, and that only slowing down could heal it.

Why do you need to use all these words like God and spirituality? It is right here Abdi, all around you, all the time
Page 40


one does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.
Page 51


Ultimately it keeps grace out of our lives because we are using our will power to manipulate every event and person around us.
Page 74


His lesson, which I had begun to learn for myself, is that outside circumstances do not define our internal experience if we can surrender into them. Painful or undesirable situations will always arise; true suffering comes from our ego’s desire to resist life as it is.
Page 77


Note from Pernilla:
I met Abdi in the fall of 2014 and when I arrived in his office the first thing he said was, “It’s time that you stop carrying other people’s anxiety.” In the year that followed, my entrenched codependency patterns reared their ugly heads and I was confronted with a part of myself that I had never even known was there.

A few years later, Abdi said, “When are you going to start writing your book?”I looked at him in surprise. I was not a writer. My expertise was centered around creating crazy good Excel spreadsheets. However, I started writing and collecting notes about life issues and life experiences … and here we are a few years later.

Sally Kempton is a preeminent meditation teacher of our time.

She is an expert scholar in Hinduism and all Hindu texts especially in Kashmir Shaivisim. Formerly Swami Durgananda, she left monastic life in the 1980’s to teach publicly. She has written several books and is one of the most known and loved spiritual teachers in our time.

Note from Pernilla:

I met Sally at one of her workshops at City Yoga in LA in 2003. She had the most gentle and loving disposition, and I just wanted to always be around her. I was fortunate to have been part of her two year-long “Transformative journey” courses in 2006 and 2007 and many retreats ever since. She is the true representation of unconditional love and transmits intense shakti from her Guru Swami Muktananda.

Sally is the primary building block and foundation in my spiritual journey. Without her, I would have never found and stuck with meditation – the most transformative experience of my life. Without her, I would have been lost without a clue where to go next. Her wealth of knowledge of yogic philosophy and incredible understanding of the human condition is what makes her a force to be reckoned with.  She understands your depth and makes you feel seen, heard, validated, and deeply loved.