Posture for Awareness

Introduction

“Posture for Awareness,” is the second class in a two-part series on the Breath hosted by Abdi Assadi and Pernilla Burke.

It took me years to understand that posture is more than just standing up straight. It is a direct reflection of our presence, our energy, and even our emotions. We are shaped by the way we hold ourselves—physically, mentally, emotionally. I used to think of posture in the way we were taught as kids: something we “should” do, something rigid, something corrective. But I now understand that posture is about energy flow, about openness, about the way we meet life itself. This conversation wasn’t just about sitting or standing better. It was about cultivating an internal posture of presence. It was about learning to move through the world in a way that supports, rather than strains, our entire being.

The Connection Between Posture and Presence

I remember the first time I noticed how my body shaped my energy. Not in an abstract way, but in a visceral, tangible way. It was as if my spine dictated the rhythm of my thoughts, the openness of my heart, and the way I engaged with the world. Posture is not just about standing straight—it’s about presence. So often, we live in a forward-pitched world—our heads leaning into our screens, our shoulders curled inward, subconsciously protecting ourselves from invisible threats. We don’t realize that this physical collapse mirrors an internal one. When the body shrinks, so does our awareness. When we realign, we step into a fuller version of ourselves.

In this conversation, we explored how posture is more than mechanics—it’s a reflection of our inner state. When we lift ourselves from the core, we aren’t just improving our physical stance; we’re reclaiming space in our own lives. The way we hold ourselves affects the way we speak, breathe, and even think. A grounded, upright posture invites clarity, presence, and an openness that transcends the physical. Being present starts with feeling our own presence in the body. From the simple act of standing with awareness, we can transform how we engage with every single moment of our lives.

Practical Adjustments for Relaxation and Stability

One of the most profound shifts I’ve experienced is the realization that relaxation and stability are not opposites. We often think that in order to be strong, we have to tense up, to brace against the world. But true stability is rooted in relaxation—an effortless ease that allows us to move through life with grace rather than resistance. The practice of adjusting our posture is about learning to surrender unnecessary tension while cultivating an inner steadiness. It’s about allowing the spine to lengthen without forcing it, softening the shoulders without collapsing, feeling the weight of the body distributed evenly so that we’re supported, not strained. Breath plays a crucial role in this. When we breathe deeply and fully, we create an internal structure that naturally lifts us, aligning the body without rigidity. The key is not to force ourselves into an “ideal” posture but to find the posture that allows for both strength and softness. We also explored micro-adjustments—subtle shifts in how we sit, stand, and move throughout the day—that can create profound changes in how we feel. These small realignments, done with awareness, become a foundation for emotional stability, reducing stress and fostering a sense of ease.

Integrating Posture Awareness into Daily Life

Bringing posture awareness into daily life is not about adding another “to-do” to an already overflowing list. It’s about using everyday moments as opportunities to check in—to feel the body, to notice where we are holding unnecessary tension, to shift and realign with intention. It can be as simple as standing in the kitchen, waiting for water to boil, and noticing—Am I balanced? Am I breathing fully? Or catching ourselves hunched over our phones and choosing, instead, to lift our gaze. These small moments accumulate. Over time, they reshape not just our bodies but our awareness of ourselves. We begin to feel more connected, more present. We start to notice how our inner state changes when we move through the world with an open chest and a lengthened spine versus when we collapse inward. The beauty of this practice is that it doesn’t require extra time—just a shift in consciousness. And that shift can lead to a deeper connection, not just with our own bodies, but with life itself.

Conclusion

Our posture is our foundation. It is the silent language we speak to the world, the structure that holds our energy, the bridge between our physical and emotional states. When we bring awareness to how we hold ourselves, we cultivate presence. We shift from unconscious tension to conscious ease. We become more rooted, more open, more alive.

This is the invitation: to move through life not with force, but with flow. To stand, breathe, and be—fully, intentionally, beautifully.

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Abdi Assadi is unlike any other healer or spiritual teacher ever encountered. He is an expert in martial arts, and a dynamic healer practicing a diverse array of Chinese and Eastern Medicine, indigenous shamanic rituals, and meditation techniques. With a clinical practice in New York City for almost 4 decades, Abdi has accumulated a vast knowledge of real life experience working with several thousands of individuals, guiding them through the most difficult times, and teaching them how to understand themselves. One of the greatest things about him is he merges the human psyche with the spiritual psyche.

Steeped in deep wisdom and insight that is rare to find on this planet in these modern times, Abdi has an extraordinary ability in perceiving and comprehending human souls and their individual psyche. Guided by the divine, Abdi guides you to open up and see beyond your limited Self, into your own soul. His impeccable discernment enables him to unleash personal remarks that pierce through your veil, statements that you will never forget and in an instant alter your perception of yourself and your reality.

– Quotes from Shadows on the Path by Abdi Assadi:


All spiritual masters teach us that love is an activity before it is a condition – and that love is all-encompassing.
Page 18


It felt like I was coming off a race track and driving in a school zone. He knew, years before I did, that my speed was my way of suppressing my early childhood anxiety, and that only slowing down could heal it.

Why do you need to use all these words like God and spirituality? It is right here Abdi, all around you, all the time
Page 40


one does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.
Page 51


Ultimately it keeps grace out of our lives because we are using our will power to manipulate every event and person around us.
Page 74


His lesson, which I had begun to learn for myself, is that outside circumstances do not define our internal experience if we can surrender into them. Painful or undesirable situations will always arise; true suffering comes from our ego’s desire to resist life as it is.
Page 77


Note from Pernilla:
I met Abdi in the fall of 2014 and when I arrived in his office the first thing he said was, “It’s time that you stop carrying other people’s anxiety.” In the year that followed, my entrenched codependency patterns reared their ugly heads and I was confronted with a part of myself that I had never even known was there.

A few years later, Abdi said, “When are you going to start writing your book?”I looked at him in surprise. I was not a writer. My expertise was centered around creating crazy good Excel spreadsheets. However, I started writing and collecting notes about life issues and life experiences … and here we are a few years later.

Sally Kempton is a preeminent meditation teacher of our time.

She is an expert scholar in Hinduism and all Hindu texts especially in Kashmir Shaivisim. Formerly Swami Durgananda, she left monastic life in the 1980’s to teach publicly. She has written several books and is one of the most known and loved spiritual teachers in our time.

Note from Pernilla:

I met Sally at one of her workshops at City Yoga in LA in 2003. She had the most gentle and loving disposition, and I just wanted to always be around her. I was fortunate to have been part of her two year-long “Transformative journey” courses in 2006 and 2007 and many retreats ever since. She is the true representation of unconditional love and transmits intense shakti from her Guru Swami Muktananda.

Sally is the primary building block and foundation in my spiritual journey. Without her, I would have never found and stuck with meditation – the most transformative experience of my life. Without her, I would have been lost without a clue where to go next. Her wealth of knowledge of yogic philosophy and incredible understanding of the human condition is what makes her a force to be reckoned with.  She understands your depth and makes you feel seen, heard, validated, and deeply loved.