SELF-REFLECTION NEWSLETTER

Why do you do the things you do?

Dear Friends,

WELCOME!

This is our first newsletter coming out of our spiritual online resource, Awakening 101. In each newsletter we will have a brief discussion about each of the tools and elements of Awakening 101. The tools and elements are conduits in the awakening process. They are simply here to guide and to shape your journey ahead illustrating in a linear way what is often hard to describe.

We hope you find something here that sparks insight or gives you guidance into simple ways to create greater awareness and self-knowing in your day to day life.

Self- Reflection as one of the first tools that shifted my perspective and began my transformation. It wasn’t until I began to ask: “Why am I like this? Why do I react so strongly to certain things? Why is this always triggering me?” That was when I was able to shift and change. It was the beginning. And it began with this simple tool, and this simple awareness.

The practice of self-reflection is an essential stepping-stone on the spiritual path without which a glass ceiling appears and blocks us from moving forward. In this newsletter, we focus on self-reflection, one of the invaluable tools on any Awakening journey.

SELF-REFLECTION

Finding the courage to delve into and dissect our own neurosis, character defects, and the unconscious roles we play in life.

People’s spiritual journeys often start with some sort of self-reflection process. For me it was Alcoholics Anonymous, specifically the 12 steps of AA. For many it can be therapy or a crisis that suddenly changes their perspective on life. For others, it can be the conviction that the status quo is not enough and that they need to keep searching. This type of inquiry is the beginning of self-awareness and change. If there is no questioning, we cannot transform.

The Blog Healing Subconscious Patterns, describes more in detail the steps I took to discover my own patterns, to try to solve why I felt the way I felt and why I did the things I did. Several tools and processes gave me an opportunity to look at myself and to discover who I really was, and later on would the way I perceived myself and the world around me.

For me, it was so important to find answers because I didn’t like who I was. The drive to change and to be different in life was very strong within me. It always was.

I urge you to begin by asking yourself WHY you do the things that you do.

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Mission

“It’s been my mission to inspire conversation about awakening, and to aid individuals in their search for their inner Self. “

My hope is that you will find something on Awakening 101 that will shift your perspective and bring forth insight into your own spiritual self; guiding you further along your journey.

Each one of us has a different spiritual palette. I invite you to find what works for you.

"The reason people awaken is because they have finally stopped agreeing to things that insult their soul." - Unknown

Featured Book

When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron

When Things Fall Apart

Pema Chodron

“When Things Fall Apart” was one of the first spiritual books I read in recovery. It was a surprise to me that “when things fall apart” things can still be ok. The world doesn’t end when the going gets tough, and there is in fact a light at the end of the tunnel, even if I could not see it.

When I was at my worst, I was a mess in every way possible, in my relationships, emotionally and financially. There was no light… That is why I found “When things fall apart” so comforting. Pema presented her message so simply. As it is with Buddhism, the message was simple and practical, and gave me hope.

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Abdi Assadi is unlike any other healer or spiritual teacher ever encountered. He is an expert in martial arts, and a dynamic healer practicing a diverse array of Chinese and Eastern Medicine, indigenous shamanic rituals, and meditation techniques. With a clinical practice in New York City for almost 4 decades, Abdi has accumulated a vast knowledge of real life experience working with several thousands of individuals, guiding them through the most difficult times, and teaching them how to understand themselves. One of the greatest things about him is he merges the human psyche with the spiritual psyche.

Steeped in deep wisdom and insight that is rare to find on this planet in these modern times, Abdi has an extraordinary ability in perceiving and comprehending human souls and their individual psyche. Guided by the divine, Abdi guides you to open up and see beyond your limited Self, into your own soul. His impeccable discernment enables him to unleash personal remarks that pierce through your veil, statements that you will never forget and in an instant alter your perception of yourself and your reality.

– Quotes from Shadows on the Path by Abdi Assadi:


All spiritual masters teach us that love is an activity before it is a condition – and that love is all-encompassing.
Page 18


It felt like I was coming off a race track and driving in a school zone. He knew, years before I did, that my speed was my way of suppressing my early childhood anxiety, and that only slowing down could heal it.

Why do you need to use all these words like God and spirituality? It is right here Abdi, all around you, all the time
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one does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.
Page 51


Ultimately it keeps grace out of our lives because we are using our will power to manipulate every event and person around us.
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His lesson, which I had begun to learn for myself, is that outside circumstances do not define our internal experience if we can surrender into them. Painful or undesirable situations will always arise; true suffering comes from our ego’s desire to resist life as it is.
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Note from Pernilla:
I met Abdi in the fall of 2014 and when I arrived in his office the first thing he said was, “It’s time that you stop carrying other people’s anxiety.” In the year that followed, my entrenched codependency patterns reared their ugly heads and I was confronted with a part of myself that I had never even known was there.

A few years later, Abdi said, “When are you going to start writing your book?”I looked at him in surprise. I was not a writer. My expertise was centered around creating crazy good Excel spreadsheets. However, I started writing and collecting notes about life issues and life experiences … and here we are a few years later.

Sally Kempton is a preeminent meditation teacher of our time.

She is an expert scholar in Hinduism and all Hindu texts especially in Kashmir Shaivisim. Formerly Swami Durgananda, she left monastic life in the 1980’s to teach publicly. She has written several books and is one of the most known and loved spiritual teachers in our time.

Note from Pernilla:

I met Sally at one of her workshops at City Yoga in LA in 2003. She had the most gentle and loving disposition, and I just wanted to always be around her. I was fortunate to have been part of her two year-long “Transformative journey” courses in 2006 and 2007 and many retreats ever since. She is the true representation of unconditional love and transmits intense shakti from her Guru Swami Muktananda.

Sally is the primary building block and foundation in my spiritual journey. Without her, I would have never found and stuck with meditation – the most transformative experience of my life. Without her, I would have been lost without a clue where to go next. Her wealth of knowledge of yogic philosophy and incredible understanding of the human condition is what makes her a force to be reckoned with.  She understands your depth and makes you feel seen, heard, validated, and deeply loved.